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I would say that if the guy you want back is a serial cheater and addict, then perhaps a deeper question to ask yourself is why you want someone like that back...I think one of the best things about trying to manifest an SP or an ex back is that eventually, we all go from the obsessive glee of finding a technique that will win the person to learning how to truly love ourselves and feel secure within ourselves alone.  A lot of times, when that happens, we realize the person we just had to have may not be worth it.  These are questions that only you can answer but if your self-love is intact, then you make better, healthier choices in friends and romantic partners.

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UPDATE' I got a text from my PoI after 8 months of _No Contact, asking if I´m in town!  IT happened about an hour after I got so tired of him being stubborn and not responding to PW by reaching out that i decided to forget about him and move on.  

I was actually going to do PW on him one last time just to say goodbye and to tell him thru PW that I wouldnt be telepathically visiting him anymore because of his lack of effort.  And after i made that decision about an hour later, he text me.  There was nothing for 8 months, and then that!  

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Signs definitely follow ONCE you are in your state of your wish fulfilled - they do not precede. Also, this letting go thing is misunderstood; you don't have to let go of the desire, but actually you should be attached to already having the desire. You should not be attached to the lack of or how the desire will unfold. If you are sitting there trying to let go, you are not doing it right. Enough imaginal sessions will cause you to naturally let go, or impress the belief so you feel as though you already have it. 

Tbh, I only follow Neville, and Agnes, although she means well, isn't consistent in what she teaches. Trying a million different techniques and not seeing results clearly isn't working, so I would stick with one scene and do that until you don't feel the need to do anymore. After that, don't sit and wait to see signs, just live in the assumption. 

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I dunno!! The thing is doing the PW makes me feel really happy afterwards and I think that's why Ive been doing it so often, however I noticed if I stop doing it, after about 2 days I'll start to feel depressed, and I have to do it again to feel better.  I guess its because subconsciously Im worried about skipping it incase I lose my SP, or I miss feeling happy from doing the technique, I'm not sure.  So should I still stop doing it!?  But on the other hand when I just tried to do it today I felt like I was overwatering a plant if that makes sense_  I got a weird feeling like, this is already done, its pointless spending any more time on him.  But at the same time I feel down from not doing the technique .  so what should I do!)

and Thinking Out Loud 88 im happy youre glad I post it !!!   I think the only way to speed it up is to geneuinely detach from it becos I think most of the time we think we're detached but then really we're not cos we still care enough to ask where is it!?  but I think when we're genuinely detached we're so not bothered anymore, or we're so convinced it's def coming, that we dont even bother to ask where is it !!!! if that makes sense!!

If you're only happy when you're doing PW then you are still attached.  You need to get to the point where although you are confident that your manifestation is already done, you would be equally happy without it.  If you were fully confident, you wouldn't be looking for signs or even asking the question.  Agnes (maybe referencing Neville?) has said that signs follow, they don't precede.  So you need to get to the point where you are just happy with YOU.  I hope that helps.