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[quote=ChaliceSnowFlower][quote=Lanie Stevens][color=#000080]Cherished you are EXACTLY spot on with everything you have written so eloquently.  So many women feel they need to reach out and it is the worse thing you can do.  It's always disappointing because 1) he will continue to be cold and distant which crushes your fragile ego or 2) after that contact from you he still won't contact you again.  So any baby steps you have taken to heal are gone and you must start the healing process all over again. Stay away from him and contact him as many times as you would like using your subconscious mind.  It works!  Last night as I was lying in bed I sent a message to my fiancé' (he's in the mountains right now) and within 5 minutes he called me just to say he suddenly thought of me and how very, very much he loved and missed me.  No coincidence.  I didn't even send him a message.  I was just seeing what would happen if I called him to me, looked into his eyes, felt love and gratitude and then released him.  I didn't hear him say anything and I didn't say anything to him.  My point, contact them subconsciously because they will feel you, hear you, connect with you and it will affect them. A text?  No, not so much!  LOL  Please "sisters" hear me!  You have the power and control to change your lives if you will just hear what Cherished is saying.  xoxoxoxoxoxoxo[/color][/quote] [size=125][color=#00ffff][b]This is so beautiful Lanie. I can feel the love all way over here. Best Regards, Shana Jahsinta Walters.[/b][/color][/size][/quote]