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[quote=Marz][quote=ChaliceSnowFlower][quote=Marz]We broke up on NYE and took a break from speaking (here's when I did the technique consistently). Last night he told me that he was sort of upset at that the fact that I was happy during our separation because he wasn't, then he asked "what do we do now?". I told him that we can move forward as friends and that's all we really can do at this point. I also told him I am in love with him ... I'm sure he knew that, but felt he needed to hear it because I could tell that he was afraid I'd gotten over him.  So, ugh, I know this sounds like a lot! But this man is the love of my life. In 35 years, I've never loved someone so much - to this capacity or continued to deal with BS like I do with him - but he needs to know that we will not just get back together at the snap of a finger because it's what he wants. In this aspect, men are a lot like children and they can't be spoiled. ;)[/quote] [color=#800080][b][size=125]I applaud you Marz for standing your ground. You were honest with him about the love you feel for him but under no uncertain terms is he to think that the possibility of losing you forever is not a reality. Had it been so other woman, she probably would have fallen right back into his arms. Things probably would been fine for a while, but then the same issue would just resurface and then another break up. Keep doing what you have do to manifest a much better and wonderful relationship with your love. I'm cheering for you. Best Regards, Shana Jahsinta Walters.[/size][/b][/color][/quote] Thank you so much Shana! I really appreciate that![/quote]