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[quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=ThisIsMyUsername]Thanks Lanie!!:) Question, so if there is absolutely no spark or flame left, can it still work? In your paragraph you made it seem like there has to at least be something there left. AFAIK, in my current "reality" she has absolutely no interest or feeling for me anymore. At all Thanks again:)[/quote] [color=#000080]I feel your pain and desperation and I know how that feels to experience.  You don't really know whether she has feelings for you or not ALL you know is what she says.  It can be due to anger, resentment, frustration or it could be the absolute truth.   I would take her at her word but I would use the technique, stop obsessing, do something positive about my life, disconnect from her so you can empower yourself and allow her to feel the loss and if she has feelings for you she will be back.  I understand anxiety disorders and I have read your posts on the forum and I know this is difficult for you.  It's hard to do but you must allow yourself to focus on something other than her.  xoxoxoxoxoxo[/color][/quote]