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[quote=Lanie Stevens][color=#000080]It is absolutely possible but you need to be healthy emotionally.  Ask yourself:  Would I want someone who is needy, obsessive, controlling or desperate?   Focus on getting yourself to a good place and I promise everything else will fall into place.  Your life will change and not hinge on one specific person.  However, she will see you differently and if there is something there (and there probably is) she will be more likely to come back.  Allow your positivity to affect every area of your life and don't give up seeing yourself as happy, whole and complete with yourself.  Not relying on anyone else for your happiness and contentment.  :-)  [/color][/quote]