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[quote=MadMoiselle87]Hey girls, I was sooo positive in my last post but now I am as confused as before lol. How do you handle that NC thing? I mean in the past before all this problems were coming up we had contact everyday and usually he wrote me one day and I wrote him on the next and so on. But since I'm trying to get back with him I let him initiate all contact. But how long should I really do that? I mean since he was on vacation he wrote me quite every day but I get the feeling he becames more distant again maybe because he noticed that I never wrote him at first... Yesterday we didn't have contact at all :(. Should I really continue to let him initiate all the contact? And how long should it take? Until we're really back together? Another thing is two days ago we wrote eachother and had a nice conversation but suddenly he didn't answer me for hours. Then suddenly I got only a laughing smiley face in the middle of the night. Then he changed his status in whatsapp on something like 'don't ask yourself what's  right, ask what you are feeling. stop asking if you can instead ask if you want' (well hard to translate into english lol but thats the meaning) Well it coooould be about me because in the past he always overthought our situation instead of getting back with me and give us another chance but after he didn't answer me for so long and he didn't text me yesterday I got a lot of doubts if there could be another woman... But would that make sense if he invite me to the movies on next wednesday and brought me something from his vacation? Don't know what to think.... I really don't want to give this thoughts a chance but it's so hard right now ... How can I stop that?[/quote]