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[quote=rosetinted]Just to kind of update in case anyone sees this and has any insight... After the phonecall my guy turned up to surprise me at a gig I was playing. We spent all night together and I was over the moon. He hugged my goodbye but didn't want to let go... he was drunk so I let him stay on my couch. I knew he wanted to be in my bed.. nothing romantic happened then we just talked for hours that night and the next morning. He kept telling me how amazing I was, how he was my biggest fan, how sorry he was, how great I was. All good amazing stuff! If only he'd kissed me. I told him I wasn't big on bothering ppl anymore so it was upto him if he wanted to hang out. That was about 2 weeks ago and besides sharing a link with me on Facebook no nothing nada. Last night I text him a light text asking if he was going to this gig and how he was. And nothing. I feel a bit disheartened and confused. I had a little cry, worrying I've messed things up but I felt sure he would reply? I'm obviously doing something wrong and I feel pretty crap now... I will continue using the technique and reassuring myself he's not being a dick. He's really not like that, but the months of no contact was so hard I don't want it to happen suddenly again.... I'm scared..?! P.s he kept apologising for not contacting me over the summer, over and over. So now I'm like... what... huh? Any kind advice would be appreciated! My mother has been unwell lately too so I'm manifesting her health! But I haven't told him about it cuz yknow. X[/quote]