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[quote=Blissful][quote=DC]This is really good. Thank you. 😀 In my mind, detachment means that your desire is a choice. You aren't going to buckle at the knees and fall face flat on the pavement if it doesn't come, but you'd prefer things a certain way. For detachment, I've always seen three possible scenarios: 1. You feel really good about what you want. You don't have doubt or fear. So, you can think happily and in a fulfilled way about your desire. 2. You have doubt and fear so you place your order, and think about things that make you happy instead and avoid the topic. 3. You can't stop thinking about your desire, but you infuse it with fear and doubt each time you think about it so since you can't avoid it, you need to shift your energy by being more general, using a focus wheel, EFT, pivoting your thoughts etc. until you can get into scenario 1 or 2. It always falls into these buckets.[/quote] DC I agree with your desire being a choice and that it is important not to let our desires control us and trip us up, but rather to think of them joyously and with 100% belief we can have them, but also that we can live without them. That is the tricky balance I find of accepting that I am a priority over my desires and I control what makes me happy not the reliance on my desire being fulfilled. This is why I think I needed to stumble across this original post because I believe I had been guilty of doing certain things like loving myself to attract my love back instead of loving myself because I love myself. This was very much an a-ha! moment for me and I am now making a conscious effort to follow my bliss (hence the username) because I owe it to myself to live a happy fulfilled life.  [/quote]