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[quote=wanderlusting]If you don't mind, could you please elaborate on your comment a little more? What do you mean that the single thing was a cover? I will throw it out there that we have had a very rocky relationship with extreme highs and lows. There was typically no grey area. A lot of the issues were due to me being insecure, worried all the time, anxious, jealous, accusatory and never being able to get over certain things he had done in the past. I know that a lot of my reactions/actions drove him away but he actually did the same thing to me 3 years ago and a lot of this break up is similar in some aspects. This time around though, he isn't communicating with me nor are we hanging out which I think is helping him too move forward and not come back. I know he is filling the void of where I once was as he stated this to me. We have been on and off for 6 years and he told me that the majority of his 20s were spent in a relationship and now he is enjoying living life without the demands or responsibility of what comes with having a relationship. I do also know that the friends he is hanging out with, they are quite the bad influence as well. Always partying, drinking, and hooking up with girls because they are "anti-relationship".  [quote=Woodyluv][quote=Sushi]My impression when I read this is that it's working, he's just not there yet. He's being spiteful and he said these things to hurt you because he's still angry about something, whatever it is. You can give up now. It's your choice. If you keep going though, he's going to break. [/quote]   Sushi, I totally agree. It seemed to me that he was running from the intensity of his feelings. And given patience and time, he would let go. The single thing was a cover, in my humble opinion...[/quote]  [/quote]