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[quote=Jag123]Oh darling! In you reply you could have been me speaking to myself.  You are taking all of the right steps in uncovering your own issues as to why you are the way you are.  I have been doing the same, and it's finally dawning on me that I was not "allowing" the relationship to come to fruition because of my behaviours and limiting beliefs.  Do you truly believe you are worthy of the relationship and do you truly believe you could have the relationship you want?  Start there and take him out of the equation altogether. The story  I - and you  -  are telling about the relationship is the not relationship that you want.  My belief is that you both want the same thing. He loves you just not the behaviours that you have honestly described.  You too are focussing on the aspects of him that you don't particularly care for. So what do you think keeps manifesting?   You need to give yourself a break, and try not to overanalyze. The one thing I will say, is that the other women mean absolutely nothing.  Remember that - love and sex are two very different things.   His advising you to move on is nothing more than him thinking it will make it easier on himself to do the same.  He probably wants to hate you, so he can let go.  If you can, don't engage in that kind of conversation, by taking the high road  he won't  kno what the hell is going on. lol! Take yourself away from the siutation - not from him - from the situation. Decide on the relationship you want with him, and then decide the person you want to be in [i]that [/i]relationship.  Make your work becoming that person.  Heal yourself from [i]your[/i] past anxieties - imagine what world will open up to you when you do.  You can't fix the situation in the space you are in, and you are doing so well in moving on from that person you were to the person you are becoming.  The love is there between you, that won't ever go, but it can't move forward until you do so in yourself. Law of attraction will take the situation forward based on your vibration.   Does that make sense? Sending you love x[/quote]