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[quote=wanderlusting]But if you are telling people that you didn't want him back when you actually did, wasn't that bringing more of not having him to you? [quote=Jag123][quote=wanderlusting]What do you mean by the rule you referred to? .[/quote] "If you say something enough doesn't make it true"  People say all kinds of things to convince themselves of something they want to be true.  For example, I used to say to people all the time that I didn't want him back because he treated me badly.  Inside though, I'd have done anything to have him back. Lol!  Just because I said it didn't make it true.  As an aside, what I did learn about myself though, was that I needed to get some more self respect...and I did once I started working on myself.  It really is the key.  [/quote]  [/quote]