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[quote=emmiline]I do agree with you that his behaviour is extremely confusing, and id be really mad at him if i was you. I think sometimes guys bait us to see how much of their crap we will accept. Perhaps he didnt know how strong your feelings were when he was buying you gifts, going to the movies etc. Now that he knows you are expecting more, he feels uncomfortable emotionally and so is trying to slow the pace down.. I dont know, we need an actual man here to decipher this.. im very sure a lot of us would benefit from some insight into their minds (smile) In the meantime, do you want to talk about this with him or give him space? You may want different things right now from each other. The main thing for me is you feeling frustrated or responsible somehow for [i]his[/i] behaviour, its not healthy.[/quote]