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[quote=MadMoiselle87][quote=pixelpie][quote=MadMoiselle87][quote=emmiline]You might want to slap me for saying this, but its up to you if you want to give up using the technique on him.. really only you can decide that. But if you are not ready to talk, perhaps consider giving him space. Go out with your friends, have fun and let him miss the pleasure of your company. (smile)[/quote] No I don't want to slap you for that lol. But I would like to know if someone know if it still worked and why he suddenly acts this way again? It just doesn't make sense to me... Was it my jealous reaction? I don't know... argh I feel like I was almost at the finish line and now I have to start again -.- Well I gratulated him for birthday today and said he can pick up his birthday present when he has time because atm he doesn't have a own home and live at his best friends house and his fiance so he never has visitors there and so I can't bring it to him. Maybe that isn't a bad thing so he will come to me sooner or later lol... Strange stuff is going on here... Wondering what the universe is planning here lmao  [/quote] Moiselle I can give you two thinks that could help. You may not like them. But I know they could help you. One is the reply Jag gave to someone else here I think the same advice can easily apply to your situation too in a sense. It's at the bottom: http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic_mobile.php?pid=15484#p15484 And this from one of Neville's books: http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic_mobile.php?id=1201[/quote] Thanks well it's not like I'm insecure all the time it's just that I'm getting jealous pretty fast ... if I'm down I can push my mood by scripting and visualizations really fast. I just don't know how to keep the focus and to ignore the incoming doubts .... I'm visualizing everyday before going to bed and imaging him sleeping next to me. But aren't doubts normal? Guess there's no one who never has doubts.. it's just the way you handle it and I guess that's my main problem lol.[/quote]