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[quote=MadMoiselle87][quote=pixelpie][quote=MadMoiselle87][quote=pixelpie] Moiselle I can give you two thinks that could help. You may not like them. But I know they could help you. One is the reply Jag gave to someone else here I think the same advice can easily apply to your situation too in a sense. It's at the bottom: http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic_mobile.php?pid=15484#p15484 And this from one of Neville's books: http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic_mobile.php?id=1201[/quote] Thanks well it's not like I'm insecure all the time it's just that I'm getting jealous pretty fast ... if I'm down I can push my mood by scripting and visualizations really fast. I just don't know how to keep the focus and to ignore the incoming doubts .... I'm visualizing everyday before going to bed and imaging him sleeping next to me. But aren't doubts normal? Guess there's no one who never has doubts.. it's just the way you handle it and I guess that's my main problem lol.[/quote] I understand what you mean. But the point I was trying to make is why are you jealous? When you understand that it all comes from you. How can you be? Your problem seems to be that you have not worked on how you see yourself full. You are holding up negative beliefs of yourself of being doubtful and jealous. You are in competition for this man's affections with no one other then yourself. Don't you see that when you're views change on what's happening his reactions change to match them. When you thought everything was going great it was. And when you thought things would go bad they did. The universe's only answer is yes to whatever you believe good or bad. It can only match how you feel about things. And it is matching yours just the same feeling for feeling. Yes everyone has doubt in the beginning. But when you are 100 % sure of the thing want. You will no longer have doubts, worry of fear. You will look back on any doubt and wonder why you ever had them. No one said this is easy. It is nor easy. It takes faith. Real faith and that is hard. Because you have to full believe in something with or without proof. And right now you want this man to give you proof. But you don't see that he is giving you proof that he and can only reflect back to you how you feel about the matter.[/quote] Wow thanks for this awesome answer :). (The funny thing is I even hoped you would answer on my topic because you helped me already on other topics lol) But you're right .... everything was fine until I thought there could be something with this girl on the picture .... and then he became distant ... How do you deal with such thoughts? Or do you even have them? ^^[/quote]