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[quote=Oasiscalm][quote=rosetinted][quote=Oasiscalm][quote=rosetinted]So he's just ignoring me again... I'm so confused... I sent two texts over the past 2 weeks Then I suddenly thought oh god I think he has a new phone so maybe new number. So I sent something on fb messenger. A gif. He's seen it. And nothing. I'm so upset and confused after all that... I don't want to have to go through another 3 months of no contact. What have I done wrong now. I'm so close to asking him what the hell his problem is, I know he wants me he's basically told me he's in love with me. So stop hurting me stop disappearing. I don't think I can handle it again. Any kind words would be appreciated. So disappointed in myself. X[/quote] Stop chasing him. Don't contact him. If now is not the time for him let be until the time he is ready. In the same way he found you to declare his love, he will find you when he is ready to commit to you. Get back to you. Remove the desperation and attachment and walk in faith. Work on your inner self believe and your worthiness.[/quote] That made me cry. Not in a bad way, thank you. ❤️ I really got my hopes up this was it. It's ok though. I'm just hurt. And a little embarrassed. X[/quote] I know what it's like to get your hopes up that "this is it, now is the time" but what I have learnt is that those moments never came when I was focused on them. So for example the time when I'm talking to my guy and Im thinking right now he's going to say xyz. And in those moments it doesn't happen. It happens one evening when I've had a blah day, I've taken off my make up, my hair is a mess about to get into bed and he calls to say he is outside and wants to chat. So don't worry it will unfold but you just need to not be so focused on each moment being the moment it going to happen.[/quote]