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[quote=Oasiscalm]THOU SHALL NOT FOCUS ON THE UNWANTED. What does that mean, remember when Bashar said "circumstances don't matter" and when Neville said "turn your eye to what you see". Stop focusing on what you don't want to see. It means all the energy you are using to focus on him blocking you/ ignoring you/ having a new girlfriend/ not telling you what you want to hear, needs to be redirected. You need to find a way to stop allowing the unwanted reality penetrating into your mind. I'm realistic, I do know that the current reality has a way of constantly slapping you in the face, but it's actually you who allows it to keep slapping you. Find a way to stop it. Get yourself a mantra for the moments when the unwanted presents itself to you. So when you are going about your day and thoughts about him and some other girl or that he is still blocking you pop up in your man, quickly engage your mantra to turn things around and stop the momentum. So ask yourself are you ready to turn you focus back to your end desire and ignore your current reality?[/quote]