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[quote=Jag123]Hi Wanderlusting,  It seems to me like you are heading in the right direction in spending quality time with yourself.  Maybe work on changing your beliefs around his text messages?  If you get what you think about, and you feel these messages don't mean anything in terms of going forward then that will probably come about.  When I was with my boy, he used to say all kinds of things that were contrary to what he meant like "I don't to settle down" - when he did.  If I were you, I would choose to ignore that, and concentrate my visualising the version of him that you want, saying things you want him to say.  As a positive, you are in his thoughts and he does care.  You just need to change your beliefs around this relationship - remember your power! [/quote]