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[quote=Jag123]That sounds like a familiar battle :)  I think the question you  really need to ask, is can you forgive him?  In order to move forward you will need to forgive him anyway, because the only person it hurts when you think about him with anyone else is yourself.  When you learn to forgive him, you will find the pain will lessen and you will be in a better position to make an informed decision about what you want.  You may find that when you let what he has done go - with love if you can - that you don't want the relationship.  However, if you hold on to it, it will forever colour your future relationship choices, with  or without him. [/quote]