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[quote=Amazonne]Hello! Firstly you sound like THE BADDEST BIH!!! I cannot say I've had that kind of success with so many, BUT I have experienced something like this, too. This guy who was REALLY hot, met via dating app, and quite honestly one of the hottest matches I've had. He was being really hot and cold. The way I attracted him back (although I ended up just not being interested enough to pursue anything) was deciding that he is missing out so bad. Girl, you know you're smart and attractive and awesome company- he's being such an idiot missing out on that! See him as someone "below you" (I don't mean below like that, just as someone who should be chasing after you, if that makes sense), be almost confused that he actually went this long without seeing you. I always recommend taking a liiiiitle time off (could even be an afternoon/evening) thinking about anything to do with him- distraction is good for relieving any feelings of desperation/anxiety. Remind yourself that you have done this PLENTY of times! Also, get it out of your head that he is 'testing' you. We really always come up with our own theories, and unless you want to be right about that one, come up with your own! Hear him say in Pussy-Whip that he's dying to see you and can't stay away from you. Burn With Desire is reeeeeaaally good for that. Another guy I'd once been chatting to (non-stop- he kept initiating) suddenly stopped one day. I got mad at first but then I decided to do Burn and after the weekend he returned with an INTENSE sexual interest in me. Turns out it was his birthday that weekend and his family had come down to spend it with him. (So, like I said, theories, theories). Sorry I got over-excited and wrote too much. Your track record is just so cool! Dayyum 💥 Hope this helps :) xx[/quote]