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[quote=Blissful][quote=Oasiscalm][quote=Blissful][quote=emmiline]Hi blissful, Big hugs to you. Sleeping with him will make you even more confused at this stage. I understand us ladies just want to heal our men and make everything better. You might need boundaries here to protect your heart, and avoid the physical intimacy issues.[/quote]   Thank you for this advice emmiline, it does just make things harder.. Kind of like being in limbo just waiting for him to commit to me but I know I have to be strong and let him go, just needed encouragement, I am so grateful for this forum for the help and guidance[/quote] You don't need to be in limbo. You absolutely shouldn't be in limbo. You should never sit around waiting for someone to commit to you. When you set your self worth at a high standard you won't be in limbo. Get back to your life. When he is ready for you he will find you and things will unfold as they need to.[/quote] Thank you Oasiscalm, I needed to read this! I just got back from holiday so I'm catching up on the forum and it was so nice to see some more advice on my situation.. I feel a lot stronger and clear minded of what I want and my worthiness to have it. I saw sleeping together as progress and that it will eventually lead to commitment but I see now that I had it backwards.. the commitment needs to come first before any sexual relationship can develop.. it just felt natural to sleep with him as we've been together 5 years and he just feels like home but I need to just see this as a new relationship starting from scratch and I wouldn't just sleep with someone straight away as we're just starting out. I need time on my own to focus on me and get myself in alignment and he will be back when he has found alignment in himself to. I trust the universe and I am not going to force anything to happen  [/quote]