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[quote=rosetinted][quote=Raleigh]My two cents.. I think you will have more success if you handle this with a more empowered and positive mind frame. Instead of "I hope," think "I know" and "I have." Do pw to connect with him and carry on working on wonderful you. If you were in a beautiful committed relationship with him, would you be afraid? Ignore the little details and walk in faith.[/quote] Thank you Raleigh, I just checked this thread this morning as I was feeling a little wobble to read over others advice and feel so glad to see your reply and you're right. I actually said to my friend last night (one who is incredibly reassuring and knows us both very well) that I wouldn't be so worried if I had a label and commitment, and that's exactly the mind frame I need to try to keep myself in. To dive into the timeline of this situation where everything is already sorted and he is mine. I was feeling awful yesterday about this girl he kissed commenting on his Facebook on some in joke they have. I still haven't heard from him again. BUT I had this important interview for this cool job that might be perfect for me. I dried my eyes and drug my ass there and was offered the job by the end of the interview. I have a history of depression and avoidance where I wouldn't have gone, so even the fact I made it there is pretty crazy to me! I let him know the good news, nothing back. But that's ok. I won't give up I've come way too far![/quote]