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[quote=MoonFlower3]Oh boy that would mess me up personally. Hmm. In my opinion, if this was the guy I was in love with and wanted to spend the rest of my life with I would continue the PW and visualizations. He said he still loves you and kissed you, however if he were to ask to hangout or try to kiss me again I would decline or avoid him until he is single. Sort of what I'm currently going through I went completely NC because I felt he was getting the best of both worlds, of being with his GF and having me to spend time with which upset me because I want him all to myself. But anyways, back to you, before you do anything I feel you should have a good long talk with yourself and make sure this is the man that you absolutely want. If he is then you will have him, but you can't control the situation, expect him to be yours but don't expect it to have a certain way. It can happen a certain way but it's has less resistance if you don't try to control how it happens. But make sure he's the one you want then continue the PW and visualizations stronger and with more intention, don't give up even if it seems like nothing is happening. On the other hand if this was good closure for you, then you can move on and find someone else and who knows he might even try to win you over. But at the end of the day this is your decision, follow your heart and do what you want. I hope this helps and you get what you want (:[/quote]