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[quote=Oasiscalm][quote=Aphrodite11]Oasiscalm, once I asked on th forum how to bring about a change in others. When I asked the question I got  a different answer. What I actually wanted to ask was  how  to  bring  about a change in them using LOA/PW, etc. I got  the  answer for that somewhere in  another  post. But as I said, I got a different answer and that answer was "changing ourselves". I knew we have to change ourselves first in order to change  the  behaviour of others towards us. But I gradually learnt the other meaning  of it too.  You  have mentioned it here again. Thank you for that. Now whenever possible, I try to remember it.[/quote] It always comes back down to ourselves It's the most difficult and easiest part of using LOA. Instinctively we observe the other persons actions and we want to react and change them but we forget it's ourselves we need to focus on. It's all within our power to change our reaction andnexpectations. It's a process which sometimes flows and other times more effort is needed[/quote]