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[quote=Hattie]I'm so grateful for all of the quick advice; I agree that this is completely in the realm (well, 'mostly') of his own free agency - I can only do so much. But yes! I have absolutely told him I have more self respect than to share him willingly with this woman and he refused to end it. For at least another year, I am financially tethered to the home we share; my hope is two fold: that she loses interest (precisely as Sushi said; this woman likes toys. She seems to tire of them quickly, unless they provide a lot of juicy drama for her - which I, sadly, did just that when I confronted her several weeks ago before I knew the technique. I would NEVER have given her so much emotional leverage had I read Lanie's book before) and 2ndly, this time sharing our family home, practicing the technique and genuinely just feeding my own soul and being a loving mom will lure him back naturally <3 Love my sisters! Thank you for the support - I feel it![/quote]