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[quote=getitgirl][quote=Noeshe]It is not really about doing PW or not doing PW, it is about having and maintaining the [b]feeling[/b] of him being back with you. It might just be that after a PW session you have a feeling of: okay, I PW-d you, now you should respond to me quickly... which actually leads to him not responding because you are focussed on the lack of him responding, if you get what I mean. Know that you two will meet up and do what feels best to you in the meantime. It is all in the intention behind it, not in the action itself![/quote] Thanks for reminding me what to focus on! :-)  I think the confusion comes from not knowing the effects of PW. I've done RS on 1 guy for 4 months (with surprising success 3 months after that), but other than that, my ex is the only guy I've done PW on for so long. So when I do the pw, and he seems to *poof*, I question whether I'm making the situation worse and if it'd be better to just forget about him and not do the pw. Everyone says pw *always* works - and I do believe the success stories - I just haven't had concrete evidence in MY life to confirm that it works.  I actually just PW'ed him: "I really want to see you, I'll tell you about our plans soon I promise" and a bunch of other stuff that just flowed e.g. "I'm really excited to see you."  I'll report back what happens, we're planning on meeting this Sunday! :-)[/quote]