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[quote=Linda][quote=HH]ok... so this is so WEIRD! My ex's brother who i haven't talked to in months but was always close to when I was in the relationship with my ex, just reached out to me to help him with finding an apartment (my ex and his brother live together). I am not even sure why he couldn't ask a realtor or his friends who are all realtors... He said he trusted me with it the most.  We talked and caught up for a while which was SO NICE and I felt like something is happening because how does he reach out to me out of the blue while i am doing these techniques...?? Something must be working...  BUT the brother did tell me that when he moves out (which he wants to in a month), my ex wants to move his current girlfriend into the house and that their relationship is progressing.  He mentioned that my ex feels pressured to get married bc of his age (he's 35) and that he just wants to move onto the next step... with her.     I WAS NOT HAPPY with these news!! What about all my techniques for him to break it off with her and  contact me??  I am trying to tell myself that something better is going to come out of this... but hearing these news is making me angry and doubt now.  I believe in the technique but today I am panicking with these news... And if i help the brother (he was like a younger brother to me and my intiution says to help him), am i enabling my ex to move his new girl in.....  any advice or thoughts or ways to change my technique would be appreciated.. thank you so much...! <3  [/quote] I know it's hard but try to ignore the reality if you can. In this situation would be better you move on. Do the thecnique and move on without expectation. But this is just me You could visualise him saying something like Everytime i date her I feel fisically sick emotionally ill, she so ugly I feel discusted by her. I never want to date her or anyone else ever again. I just want to date you, I fantasise only about you, I desire only you. Good lucky xx[/quote]