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[quote=TL][quote=Soblue][quote=TL]Hi sisters! So I want to share my experience of using the technique so far and also ask for some advice. I already told Lanie about this story in the email but I would like to share it here as well: I have been using the technique for about ten days or so to attract my ex back. I haven't seen any results yet from my ex but something happened at work when I wanted to test it out. One day I was just sitting at my desk dozing off, and I was like okay I am going to test the technique now since I recalled Lanie said in the book the best time to use it is when you are sleepy. So I closed my eyes and visualized this guy from my work come offering his cookies to me. (I knew this coworker had cookies in his drawer). So I did it exactly the way Lanie taught in the Pussy Whip book. I visualized calling his name and then he turned around and asked "would you like some cookies?" It was a quick visualization and I didn't really have too much expectations for it. Then literally within five minutes I heard this guy opening his drawer. In my head I was like no freaking way! this is happening! Then I got an instant message on our internal messenger "would you like some cookies?" the exact words I visualized him saying in my visualization. In all fairness, this guys always likes to offer his cookies at work. But at the time I was visualizing he was busying doing his work and  we didnt have any interaction the whole day that day. Coincidence? maybe lol but I was blown away by how fast it manifested. Anyway, going back to my concerns now. My ex broke up with just before Xmas last year. So I have been doing the no contact for over 5 weeks now. I have also been using the technique for about 10 days mixing with other remote seduction ones I learned before. I do it for at least 3 times a day, especially when I wake up in the morning and before I go to bed. I find that I get really tired sometimes when I visualize too much, like I would get really sleepy and and tired during the day. I want to contact him so badly now because I don't want him to completely move on without me. I know it is good to wait for him to contact me first but I don't have patience to wait for a few months or a year like Lanie mentioned in the previous post. It would kill me to see him dating other women. I really want the technique to manifest fast but I know that he is a super stubborn guy that even if he gets the message he has enough will power to stop himself from calling me. What should I do now? I hope that all the visualization I have done so far will at least help make him be more open to hear from me. Love and blessings to all, Trish[/quote]   Hi Trish. I have Lanies books as well and have used it briefly in the past with some success. I have not started back yet as I want to rid myself of the negative energy I am feeling for the guy. Any who, first as you can see it does work. The cookies was no coincidence I inadvertently do it all the time by just thinking of something or someone and they will call or text me. You're on the right track by doing it 3 times a day. Do you know how hard that is for most people?? By being that focused and disciplined with your manifesting 3 times a day will certainly bring you results. As you said you've only been doing it for 10 days and the guy is stubborn; you must allow more time. At least a solid 30 days and continue on after that. Why did you guys break up or why did he break up with you before Christmas? How long were you together before the breakup? is this your first breakup? How old are both of you? Do you live in the same city/state? You have NOT contacted him right? I can give you some advice after I get the answers to those questions.[/quote] Thanks for the reply! Why did you guys break up or why did he break up with you before Christmas? -He broke up with me 10 days before Xmas. He didn't say much other than that he didnt want to be with me anymore and that the feeling was gone. We talked about moving in together just a week before the breakup, well, i talked about it and he sort of agreed. Then during the breakup he mentioned that he wasn't feeling happy about moving in together and that told him a lot. He said that he was ready to commit and take the next step but deep down he just didn't think I was the right person. He said he didn't want to waste my time anymore and he had made up his mind.   How long were you together before the breakup? -We were officially together for over a year. and we were seeing each other for 10 months before that.   is this your first breakup? -He tried to break up with me three times before this one, and I begged and convinced him to come back every time. so technically yes, this is the first time we are really apart.  How old are both of you? -he is 28 and I'm 31  Do you live in the same city/state?  -Yes we live in the same city. You have NOT contacted him right?  -No, We haven't talked to each other since Dec. 15th. He sent a brief message on Xmas day to say Merry Xmas and that was it. Thanks a lot for taking your time to read and reply to my message. Many blessings to you :) Trish[/quote]