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[quote=Oasiscalm]Don't worry about words. Capture the feelings. The premise behind not using negative words is that if you say it in a "not" then you are focusing on the unwanted. As long as you are focused on the want you want and not dwelling on what you don't want then you flourish. It's easy to get caught up in rules and processes, but the fundamental principle is to create the feeling of what you do want.[/quote]