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[quote=I am queen][quote=Oasiscalm]Don't worry about words. Capture the feelings. The premise behind not using negative words is that if you say it in a "not" then you are focusing on the unwanted. As long as you are focused on the want you want and not dwelling on what you don't want then you flourish. It's easy to get caught up in rules and processes, but the fundamental principle is to create the feeling of what you do want.[/quote] Hey oasiscalm how have u been ? THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR THE REPLY AND FEEDBACK ! 😘😘😘😘🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Well the thing is they said before goin to sleep keep short phrases and repeat them until u fall asleep !! And the most powerful I feel applicable is "he cannot live without me even for a day ! " but I believe one shouldn't use cannot/can't or without cos these are taken as "can live" and "with" by the subconscious as it has no discriminatory power distinguishing between positive or negative words and will take it as it actually means !! Just before v go to sleep v enter a theta state and in that mode there is not thought no thoughts involved hence I was very worried cos when I looked up the internet almost every sentence is similar to what I thought about ! Example : he is faithful only to me; he cannot surivive without me; he hates other women; he is restless without me; he is unable to concentrate without me in his life; he is unhappy without me in his life; and the thing is this is something like a mantra one has to chant so what DC told works perfectly when I do PW on him but when I have to induce it in my subconscious to believe it to be true and sink it in I need some strong statements ! That's where I need the help![/quote]