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[quote=BettyBlue][quote=Indigo][quote=soulful_queen3]@indigo what tweaks did you make to Lanie's method? I would love to learn some new ideas.[/quote] I've only been doing Lanie's method for a couple of months but I do it faithfully every single day. Lanie states that the method will work no matter what and so I've tried a couple of variations.  I don't do anything revolutionary but I call out or whisper his entire name (first middle and last) verbally until I can visualize him clearly next to me and if I'm in the bed then I visualize him laying next to me and looking at each other that way.  I follow the method pretty closely besides those variations.   I also practice the teachings that are in the rest of Lanie's writings, especially what she says in Pussy Power about retaining your power, not chasing him and all the rest of it.  I don't call him or nag him or try to get him to change I just meditate on whatever the matter is or whatever it is that I want him to do.  And of course I always maintain myself and my surroundings as immaculate as possible so that whenever he sees me he can't help but marvel at how fabulous I am [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png[/img][/quote] Sounds great. I like the idea of visualizing him lying next to you. [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png[/img]  [/quote]