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[quote=Golden][quote=HH]wow good post, good questions... did you do the technique every day for a year?   I am curious to know if anyone had a similar experience or the answers.   I am in a situation where Ive been doing it for months with not even one sign, no hello, not even unblocking from fb.  So I can understand after a year how it can get too much... and how you feel the energy is wasted.  I was going to stop after new years... but i don't want to lose my faith.   Do you believe he is the one for you?  A lot of it has to do with faith..  [/quote] Hi HH,😊 When I first began, I'd do the technique every night before bed. I really enjoyed it because it's definitely a mood booster and I'd have vivid dreams of the person and whatnot . I was definitely feeling the love and people were noticing lol. If I felt myself becoming too attached, I'd stop. So I was doing the technique constantly , then it became an 'off-and-on ' thing . (Which I thought was fine since the ladies have said it still works after you stop.) I feel this person is very important to me. We lived in the same neighborhood growing up. We were best friends for a long time before even dating . So it was painful to not even get a simple response, when most of your memories are with this person. It's like how can you not miss me even a bit lol? (Hope that doesn't make me sound crazy !) I'd actually encourage you that if your situation isn't upsetting you , keep going! Remember even though it didn't happen in my case some of the ladies , and Lanie herself ,did the techniques for a year before finding success. But they didn't dwell on the person. If it's making you feel resentful or you're feeling impatient , maybe take a break, try to understand what's under the surface that makes you feel this way.[/quote]