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[quote=Linda]I feel your pain. The universe is giving you this. It's painful but even if it seems never, things it's always changing. His married not dead, so it have hopes. In this case you can choose to care on using the thecnique or stop using it, your choice. But you most move on and try to be happy. I know it's hard but this thecnique it's meant to use and live independently if they are back or not. This is detachment when you are OK if they don't come back. This is why Lanie say to not contact then. Because if they don't contact us we still happy fine either way. And in your case it's realise that on this occasion he decide to married someone else. We are very worry and rush the process. This thecnique it's to use with patience and truly to be in the healthy state of ok either way. This is a journey were we need to learn to let go. I am on this process right now and sometimes it's feels harder then others times, but soon all the clingness of my desire will be gone. Let him go with love and if he meant to be yours he will be.[/quote]