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[quote=Sushi]Aphrodite11, from one person with ADHD to another, really dear, what kind of life do you think you would have had with this man? He wants you to adhere to a strict schedule of when to wake up, go to bed and stay on tasks. He wants you to be someone you're not. He's in the military so this would make it even worse, because it reinforces a very rigid type of scheduled lifestyle that is to the opposite extreme of someone with ADHD and after a few years they start to think that their type of insanity is normal. I know, I had one like that. It is not worth the energy you would expend trying to make sure his socks were folded correctly. There are many men out there who would love you just the way you are. There are men who would be supportive and help you stay organised instead of just criticizing you. The universe will bring you a man better suited to you. Have faith. [/quote]