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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=Indigo][quote=Aphrodite11]Yes he is married. But wasn't I there first? Weren't the promises made to me broken? Wasn't the commitment made to me broken? Wasn't I hurt? Wasn't I betrayed? Backstabbed ? Didn't he just bounce to someone else in no time? Perhaps even before leaving me? How is all this fair then? How do such people don't go through the consequencesof their actions?[/quote] What promises did he make to you?  Did he ask you to marry him?  Did he give you an engagement ring?  Did he introduce you to his family and friends as his future wife?  You do understand that some men will say anything in order to have their way with us, right.  I hate to point these things out to you but you need to be realistic.    [/quote] If you read my story you will notice that yes he asked me to get married, he wanted kids with me, he was talking about all this up until few days before the break up. He told his friends we were in a relationship and introduced me to his best friend of 8 years and she became very fond of me. I forgot to mention that he is from a Hindu family and I am from a mixed family. He was pointing this before the break up. He mentioned his parents might not like it.[/quote]