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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=Oasiscalm][quote=Blue][quote=Oasiscalm] You can spend a lifetime waiting for that stage. You get to that stage by making the desire and effort to get there[/quote] Exactly this. Also, remember Neville said that you need to only focus on the outcome. Put all your love, energy, RS, faith, etc. into your desired outcome and the universe will make it happen when the time is right. No matter how much we want, time is a factor in our manifestations. Remember Lanie loved her man and she knew he would return - she didn't focus on when or how, she just knew. And he did. She never stopped believing and we can learn a lot from her.[/quote] At the risk of sounding like a party popper I would advise Aphrodite to focus squarely and solely on herself right now. Let this new information be the catalyst to finally turning to herself and filling herself with love and self worth. The universe will always give you what you want, but the way in which it is delivered is the Unknown. And sometimes what you need can be delivered like a big slap in the face especially if you have failed to see the previous offerings from the universe. All of the processes are based on focusing on ourselves. Get back in touch with your inner being and remove all the hurt. Then your desires will start to unfold b[/quote] What Blue  says is a good mind set and she is right but you are not a party pooper. What you are saying is something I agree with. I don't see how you are wrong. Whether I want him or not, I need to heal myself for myself. This a very difficult time for me. I have never been in a situation like this before and I would rather have myself punched in my diaphragm, vomit blood and land in a hospital than go through this again. I just don't know HOW to heal now. After a display of such pleasure from his part, display of being happy with someone else.[/quote]