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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=aligemini]Aphrodite11. Oh my love, as you well know from our conversations I have been where you are now only 3 months ago. It is so hurtful. You need to vent your anger first, especially when this has arisen 'out of the blue'. Get rid of as much negativity as you can out of your system. He has blamed you since you are an 'easy target', i.e. blame her because this is not my fault, it is hers because..........Excuses excuses. Just as long as no one blames him!!! Yes I have been there too. When you have emerged from some of the anger and negativity, then maybe you can start to think about working on your inner state. Shifting some of the negativity is a great starting point. Trust me, it was just too quick (the wedding). Marry in haste and repent at leisure. He will regret it. The 'honeymoon' period will never last. And yes...... I know that because my ex cannot stay away from me for long, even though he has been told to stay away. Take care my love :)[/quote] Anger is an emotion of the devil. Nothing good ever comes out of it (except a nice angry sex). I want no part of it in me. It's toxic and damages everyone. I want all these negative emotions out. I hate feeling them. His best friend said the same thing, that it is easy to blame others instead of taking our responsibility. [/quote]