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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=aligemini]Aphrodite11. Oh my love, as you well know from our conversations I have been where you are now only 3 months ago. It is so hurtful. You need to vent your anger first, especially when this has arisen 'out of the blue'. Get rid of as much negativity as you can out of your system. He has blamed you since you are an 'easy target', i.e. blame her because this is not my fault, it is hers because..........Excuses excuses. Just as long as no one blames him!!! Yes I have been there too. When you have emerged from some of the anger and negativity, then maybe you can start to think about working on your inner state. Shifting some of the negativity is a great starting point. Trust me, it was just too quick (the wedding). Marry in haste and repent at leisure. He will regret it. The 'honeymoon' period will never last. And yes...... I know that because my ex cannot stay away from me for long, even though he has been told to stay away. Take care my love :)[/quote] You ex married after 4 months of the break up. That was way too soon and I know he is repenting. I know he will be crawling back to you. You know he can't stay away from you even if he has been told to because you have the proof of it. He tried to gain money from your property and that shows that he still wants you. His attention is on you even if it's negative. I have no such proof. Also, he married after 7 months of the break up. Yours married after 4 months. Yours was too quick. 7 months is really a haste?  Plus nobody is telling him to not contact me. Yet he hasn't reached out. At least there are people to tell you what he is thinking, etc. And his actions show he can't let you go. I have no such way of knowing anything. I admit I want him to regret a lot. But wanting such thing isn't good. Look what kind of person I have become!!!! I want someone to regret !!!!! I need to get a fucking grip on myself !!!!!!! This isn't me !!!!! I turned myself into this!!!! I don't know how did you stay so calm when your ex got married only after 4 months!!!!! You are so tough !!!!!! I want to have that strength and patience too.  What I am unable to wrap my head around is, how on earth can someone just go ahead and "marry" someone else so easily after leaving one person they were so attached to. You can have someone temporarily but marrying someone? How the fuck do people do this? To top it all claiming love for each other so fucking much in such extreme manner? Boasting about it so much !!!!!! [/quote]