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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=Tessy]My dear... U are right, each nation has its own advantages and disadvantages. I also had a similar experience but yes not as strong as yours. Marriage as an institution is losing its value, but two people moving away or breaking up dosnt mean the entire country is bad! Just one thing - What u are going through, each one is, in some way or hte other! Its natural for u to react this way, when we fall in love, this world looks beautiful and when that ONE person is not there or cheated us, the universe looks ill! I am so so aware of your feelings, but also I know getting married or breaking a marriage is not an easy task in this country and the so called taboo it is. And its not difficult for people to move on, they so happily do it. Its the other person being honest, loving and truthful suffers!! This also happens frequently in military, at least I have seen many cases trust me. U loved him deeply, so be it. He is the looser, u think he will be happy marrying for money? Naaahhhhhhhh.....every thing comes back, earth is round and moving. [/quote] Marriage in this country never was an institution of uniting people. Let's be honest about it. Since centuries marriage here was done so that you get a woman who will be your servant in your house, pop out some kids, sexually satisfy the needs of the man, do the household chores, bring money from your family, someone you can beat up etc. In fact many people still say, she is a girl, are we supposed to keep her at home?  And women are the same. They want a man to feed them, earn for them, they want to get a license to fuck other men secretly, bring money for them, abuse the men, etc  You call this "marriage"? in fact in this country, it's not losing it's value. People are slowly (very slowly and very few people) realising marriage is a union of two hearts and hence should be treated that way. Not something you do to please "society and people". I have seen people who married for the usual reasons we have here and ended up regretting a lot and realising that marriage is supposed to have love and respect first. So I don't think it is losing it's value, at least not here.[/quote]