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[quote=Blue][quote=HH]I am happy but now i get annoyed after the technique instead of feeling reassured.  I do PW and during the technique he tells me he is miserable without me, and he only desires me and he feels sick when he is with this girl.... and then after the technique, reality kicks in and he is still with this girl.  It's so hard to have him say those things, imagine it and then reality there is no sign of him.  I am thinking I am doing it wrong... how can he become closer to this girl when I have been doing this technique, daily for months?   and the worst part, his brother is texting and messaging me... which is weird!!  just as friends but what i don't want to get close to him as friends until me and my ex are back.  because that is too hard.. really confused and not sure what to do....  [/quote] You can't do the technique wrong, your subconscious and his are connected. It could be he's rejecting it so strongly that it's slowing your progress. In which case, it is up to you to decide whether to stop for awhile and then continue full force again. OR you can keep going.  You need to ignore reality completely, him being with this other girl doesn't mean a thing if you truly believe and know that his heart belongs to you. If you're constantly looking for signs, it shows you have doubts and it's slowing your progress.[/quote]