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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=Blue][quote=Oasiscalm]At the risk of sounding like a party popper I would advise Aphrodite to focus squarely and solely on herself right now. Let this new information be the catalyst to finally turning to herself and filling herself with love and self worth. The universe will always give you what you want, but the way in which it is delivered is the Unknown. And sometimes what you need can be delivered like a big slap in the face especially if you have failed to see the previous offerings from the universe. All of the processes are based on focusing on ourselves. Get back in touch with your inner being and remove all the hurt. Then your desires will start to unfold b[/quote] Not a party pooper at all, Oasis xo.I agree. Aphrodite: Please use this experience to focus on you. Meditate, find the thing you love again, go out and get a manicure. Date yourself right now, find what makes you truly happy and before you know it - your man or a better one will show up. But don't focus on love or anything right now. YOU are the woman who matters! YOU are a GIFT and you need to remind yourself every day when you look in the mirror that you are! You are a GIFT, a BLESSING, you are smart, beautiful, intelligent and strong! You WILL overcome this. We all believe in you and are here to support you always. All the things you want in life [b]will[/b] manifest, but only when you love yourself and are at a high level of love and happiness and your faith and belief is unshaken. The Universe always, always, always listens to our vibrations and frequencies and gives us exactly what we wish for.  But you are hurting right now and this is going to attract more hurtful circumstances to you. If you can, re-read Lanie's books where she talks about going out and living her life. Take deep breaths, write in a gratitude journal every day, self-talk is SO important and you need to establish a healthy self-talk within yourself. You CAN do this. We all believe in you! Tomorrow is January 1, 2017. It is going to be an amazing year for all of us - believe me when I say it. Although things seem cloudy right now, they will get brighter. Go treat yourself tonight love. Go get some wine or your favorite chocolate, surround yourself with positive and supportive people. We all love you![/quote] I have been trying to do things. I went for a movie on 1st January. Saw that shirtless tall drink of wine with bows and arrows and swords and daggers and he was looking fine in those greenish black robes. I like spending time with myself. I like going out alone, watching movies alone, shopping alone, etc. I actually don't mind doing things alone. I am feeling slightly better. I cry still from time to time but it's getting better I suppose.  I would have love having wine but I drink occasionally and think one should stay away from such things when the state of mind is not the best. I am grateful I have supportive, positive people like all of you here on the forum and around me.[/quote]