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[quote=Aphrodite11][quote=Oasiscalm][quote=Aphrodite11][quote=Oasiscalm] Why are we still talking about this. Let look at this objectively. 1- He is now married. The reasons behind his marriage has absolutely nothing to do with you. It is his life not yours. 2- He can post whatever the hell he wants. He is not responsible for your happiness. Why should he block you in order to post his happy moments. It you don't want to see his posts unfriend him, block him, don't look at his posts. 3- Your feelings are your responsibility, not his. He is not obligated to life his life to your ideals. He is not responsible for how you feel. His objective is to please himself and your objective is to please yourself. 4- Move on. Step away from all this anger. It's eating away at you. How can you expect to attract joy when all you are projecting is anger and hate. There is no set time in which someone can move on. Where is the contract that says we must wait for a specific time to move on.[/quote] I agree with everything you have said. And I know these things. I am the one who gave away all my power. I allowed myself to be affected so much. And I trying to work on it. It just hasn't been easy. hopefully I will move on.[/quote] It's good to see that you have the desire to move on. And it's great to see your reaction to what I said was positive. That shows you have strength and resolve, so believe in yourself. Believe that you are a strong person that can turn the tide and manifest all the joy and peace you desire. [b]Remember your journey is all about you[/b]. He is not the focus. [b]Your happiness is your goal. Chase that.[/b][/quote] Things have to be about us. The only thing anyone should focus on in life is their happiness. Right now things are not so easy for me. But I am trying to focus on me. I will come out of all this. As Neo says in The Matrix Revolutions "[color=#545454]Ok. [/color][b][color=#6a6a6a]You got yourself into this. You can get[/color][color=#545454] yourself [/color][color=#6a6a6a]out[/color][/b][color=#545454]."[/color]  [/quote]