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[quote=wanderlusting]So an update to my current situation.    I have been doing PW and every now and again some Remote Seduction. I have been able to manifest him back into my life on several occasions. We did end up spending the holidays and NYE together. When we hang out, it is very hit and miss. A lot of times he still acts like a boyfriend to me and then other times, he seems aloof and distant. We have kissed, hugged, held hands, told each other we loved each other, hung out on several occasions, and have had on and off communication. We broke up almost 3 months ago but the problem that I am facing here is the hot and cold I am having an issue with. Whenever I also try to bring up talks about the future or try to gauge where it is all heading, he dismisses me and tells me we always have these conversations, which we don't, because I am never able to get past the question to get an answer before he shuts me down. He did tell me the other day that while he does love me and wants me, he just doesn't want a relationship right now. Everyone I have talked to keeps telling me that he wants to keep his options open because he loves the attention he gets from all kinds of girls now that he is single. He won't follow me on IG, post anything about him and I, and won't even friend me on FB. All of these things which I tried to manifest and still, no results. He still is big into going out to the bar scene with the boys and meeting new people. I am wondering, is this a lost cause and should I just give up and move on? I do love him and I do want us to be together again but I keep hitting resistance with him and I don't want it to get to a point where he does find someone else and I am completely eradicated from his life completely. HELP! This is a forum. I need advice. [/quote]