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[quote=wanderlusting]I would agree that I am giving him too much power and that was always my biggest down fall in the relationship. We were together on and off for 6 years (the past time 2.5 years) but it seems throughout the years that he struggles with having a relationship. He broke up with me almost 3 months ago and I seriously having been doing PW for just as long, sometimes even twice a day because of the resistance that I feel from him. While he does love the benefits of having a relationship, he tells me constantly that he just doesn't want a relationship right now. He tells me that he loves being selfish with his time, loves being able to come and go as he pleases and not have to answer to anyone, and loves not having the responsibility that comes along with having a relationship. What I don't understand is why when we do hung out and talk, does he do things that a boyfriend would do but when I bring up the topic of having a relationship, he gets mad at me. I want to just go with the flow but at the same time, I want to make sure that I am not being played for a fool either. Having me but keeping his options open and then when he wants a relationship, I am the fall back girl. He will be 27 in a couple of weeks and I will be 30 this year.  [quote=Blue]You're giving him too much power. If he won't follow you, post anything, or friend you - then it's his loss. Keep doing the visualizations, while in his body visualize him telling you "I added you, followed you, etc." And let go of all attachment. It sounds like he is acknowledging his feelings for you in a way but also fighting them. Keep doing what you're doing, but focus on being more loving/see him telling you he is committed to you and only you/he gets sick thinking or being around other women/etc.  He told you he loves you and he wants you - how old are you two? It sounds like he doesn't exactly know what he wants and while your PW and RS is working - you need to focus on you two being together in a healthy, loving, committed relationship. These things are implanting themselves in his subconscious. The issue is, the more he fights - the more/harder you are going to have to do your PW and RS if this is what you truly want.[/quote]  [/quote]