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[quote=Blue]See. Because you keep saying things like "purposely ignoring me to get back at me" "doesn't want to commit" "wants other girls" "being played" "loves coming and going as he pleases" - that's what is going to continue. Thoughts and words are things and you are empowering these thoughts and actions, not him. You are the one who keeps repeating "he doesn't want a relationship" "he wants to be single" - well guess what? The Universe is listening, so that's what you're going to get - neither a relationship or a commitment to you. You need to change your mindset completely because at this rate, you are only sabotaging yourself. Other women do not matter because you already know that you are the one he loves and wants, so why do you entertain any thoughts or words that contradict that? By doing so, you are holding back all your power and making your PW and RS sessions weak because you doubt they will change his mind. HIS WORDS DONT MATTER!!! Only YOURS do! YOU have all the power here!  I would strongly recommend going NC for more than two days. You need to completely cut him off, continue your sessions and watch him run back to you. But if he doesn't, understand that your thoughts and words contributed to it. Because you allowed his thoughts and words to influence you and hold you back.[/quote]