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[quote=wanderlusting]I am definitely going to try this even though he is scared sh!tless of responsibility and having to deal with the "burden" of worrying about and "dealing" with someone on a constant basis.  [quote=emmiline][quote=wanderlusting]How do you manage to speak to him in his own language when he wants to only focus on himself, be selfish with his time, and not have the responsibilities that come along with having a relationship (his words verbatim)?[/quote] Simply rewrite that to: "I am completely focused on you, I am giving you my time and energy because you are worth it, I enjoy the responsibility that comes with being in a committed relationship with you" when you PW him. Do you see how we took his words and rearranged them to make it about him being in a relationship with you? You'll probably do a better job because you know what words he will use and how he will say them. Just tweak the script in your visualization. Good luck!  [/quote]  [/quote]