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[quote=wanderlusting]Okay, so I know that we went back and forth yesterday as I was getting my situation out in the forum for advice. So last night, I was feeling really negative so I decided to drive to the gym and try and work out my frustrations. As I had previously mentioned, I had went into NC and hadn't heard from him, until I was done with the gym last night and was heading home. I was feeling in such a great mood and super happy until I got a plethora of mean, nasty, and down right cruel text messages from him. Everything from name calling to mocking me having a mental illness (PTSD), saying that I had a "damaged mind" and such. I was blown away by everything. Hours before I had gone to the gym, I had read on a post here to detach and to even do a cord cutting meditation, which I ended up doing and then boom, last night happened. I am definitely backing away for the time being.  [quote=Blue]All you need to focus on is the outcome. Everything will fall into place at the right time. But don't pay what he says any mind because it doesn't matter what he says - people can change and after awhile of doing PW how the others said, he will be back. You just need to not give up. But if you continue entertaining negativity, only negative things will happen. Go no contact and don't bring relationships up to him or it'll drive him away. Men don't like when women try to change them, eapwcially good women. Ignore him and show him that you're the best damn thing there is. BECAUSE YOU ARE!!!! You can do this!!!!! Eyes on the prize!![/quote]  [/quote]