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[quote=Oasiscalm][quote=wanderlusting]I agree. His true colors definitely shown through last night. I was hoping that there would be a text message from him today possibly hearing an apology or even feeling bad for what he said, but nope, nothing. No remorse, no empathy, no guilt.... only says one thing narcissism/sociopathic.  [quote=Blue]I definitely hope that you cut him off for good, wanderlusting. After making fun of you and mocking you, that shows he's just an abusive asshole and doesn't deserve anyone.[/quote]  [/quote] I'm wondering why someone who decided to attack you verbally completely unprovoked would still have access to contact you. He contacted you and attacked you and you are sitting there looking at your phone waiting for an apology. Honestly what value would an apology be in this situation? What comfort could an apology really give you? What validation or vindication would an apology give you? Now if he contacted you and explained he had an out of body experience when he abused you with those texts,I might be inclined to hear him out to the end of the story. But really,come on ..... You have to see your life, your experiences it's all stops and starts with you. What is happening with this guy is all due to what you believe of yourself. Right now I would say park the trying to attract this guy back and start working on your self confidence and self worth. Start removing all the limiting beliefs you have about love and relationships. When you start to understand your true worth, you won't be standing waiting for this guy to throw crumbs at you to fill you up. You will move on. And if in the moving on he appears as the man that you deserve and desire then win win.[/quote]