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[quote=Soblue][quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=Soblue][quote=awesomesauce88]I guess i m just worried because i tried to manifest the cabin trip for me and it did not work and so i start wondering why and then there is doubt...[/quote]   [color=#4b0082][b]The cabin trip is going to happen, I would just let that go. Whatever is going to happen there is going to happen you really have no control over that. I wouldn't even think about. I'll just continue manifesting. If you're that upset then cry it out and get back to manifesting. Crying is therapeutic but shouldn't be what you're doing all day everyday. I understand exactly what you're going through and how you're feeling. I am sure many women on this forum has gone through something similar. Actually I just went through the same thing; the guy I am interested in went to Jamaica without me. He is there right now as I write to you. He left last Wednesday and should be on his way back. I was supposed to go but we got into a stupid argument and he went without me. To say I was pissed is an understatement! He lives in the Midwest I live in NJ; I barely see him as is. He came home to visit his family which is where I live before he booked the trip. It was sort of last minute trip and I was I aws like ok I'm going too! He was apprehensive because of our "arguing past" but agreed to have me come. He came back by to see me before going to the airport and we got into a stupid argument. Something I could have totally avoided, uuurggh! That cut the trip and he went "alone." So of course I could think the worst of him frolicking in Jamaica by himself but after I cried it out the first day I was over the obsessing part and busied myself. Stop obsessing about what is going to happen in the cabin, who cares. Guys aren't like us. They can go away and have fun, flirt do things with other woman but there are no real connections made just a good time. Regardless, you just need to focus on you and him. I will do the same for mine, I am just not ready to start manifesting because I want to resolve things in my head first. [/b][/color][/quote] That is such great advice you shared!   However, I think now is the perfect time for you to manifest and I hope you will!  Manifest peace within yourself and it will change your relationship with him.   During meditation tell yourself   "I am a calm, centered, happy person and am easily able to control my temper, insecurities and anger."  Then visualize forgiveness between the two of you.  xoxoxoxoxo[/quote]   [color=#0000cd][b]Thank You Lanie! Thank you again for this terrific forum! Today is a very slow day at work, so I am glad I have time to go through and read and comment on post :) Ok I will take your advice and get started again tonight before bed and again in the morning and repeat daily. [/b][/color][/quote]