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[quote=Lanie Stevens][quote=sarahjayne]Hi everyone,  Happy New Year  I am staying positive, thinking good feeling thoughts but many anxieties have come up recently.  I sent Happy New Year to my man but he did not reply ,,,  But I have been doing consistent RS - PW every day and BWD every couple of days. Ive also tried the Chord Cutting meditation to see if that will help.  I know the message is getting to him because most night I am waking up in the middle of the night and feel he is right there lying next to me. And its so emotional as well, I am crying and he is smiling / very gentle energy.  My question is will I ruin it if I break the no contact? Im really feeling the urge to email him to make amends.  Thank you ladies, and to wonderful Lanie.  Sarah   [/quote] [color=#000080]Hi sweetie!  I know it's hard this time of year to not give in and contact him but you must stay away.  What will happen if you contact him?  It may end up being a brief phone call that is uncomfortable and distant and if it is like that it can ruin your self-esteem for a period of time.  He most likely won't tell you what he has been thinking and feeling (which you hope for) and you will doubt that your visualizations are working.  Had I contacted my fiancé' he would have been as distant as he was when we broke up (I confirmed this with him) and I would have most likely been devastated.  Rather than allow this to happen I kept control of the situation and myself and ONLY sent him messages during my visualizations.  He got them, they worked, he came back.  Don't set yourself up for disappointment and failure.  xoxoxoxoxo[/color][/quote]