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[quote=daisychain][quote=Lanie Stevens][color=#000080]Daisychain thank you so much for sharing your wonderful LOA story.  You were practicing it automatically and received confirmation that it worked!  :-)[/color][/quote] Thanks Lanie [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png[/img] Yes I got him back the first time all without me realising what I was doing but I also sabotaged it without realising what I was doing!  Not knowing about LOA etc worked in my favour in getting him back because I didn't over think things or try too hard if that makes sense but also not knowing about it went against me in the way that I wasn't aware of how my negative thoughts and insecurities would bring about what happened. I truly know in my heart that this isn't the end just as I did back in the summer.  I've come a long way in these past few months since discovering PW and BWD (love these lol) and all the help i've had from the site (truly grateful) and i'm continuing to work on myself and I will get there.  He's obviously taking a little while longer to work on himself and sort himself out.....he has a lot to work on because I won't settle for anything less this time. Anytime I slip and think negative thoughts about the situation or about him and her I just keep reminding myself that no matter what has happened or is happening it is for a reason, whether that is for us both to learn and grow or some other reason, it all fits in with the bigger picture of me and him being together.  Our connection is there and he will eventually work through his feelings and figure this out [img]http://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/grin.png[/img][/quote]